We’re socially smarter

OPINION: Smart phones and social media seem to be the root of a number of evils these days.

Well, if not the root of these evils, they certainly help to perpetuate them.

As a teacher, I’m acutely aware of the presence of cyber bullying, sexting, and the prevalence of online gaming such as Pokemon Go.

And try and spend some time with someone under 30?

Whether you like it or not, most of it will be a three-way conversation — you, them and the mobile.

While you are talking to them, they’re talking back, and the whole time they are either reading other messages or texting someone else.

Bloody frustrating, but, after asking around, I’ve come to the conclusion it’s the communicating modus operandi of a new generation.

Add to this, the obsession many people have with the tools of social media, such as Instagram and Facebook, with a great number not having their phones far from their side 24-7, and continually making reference to every aspect of their movements throughout a day — both at home and at work.

Some of us are always looking at our phones.

So is this an addiction?

According to psychologytoday.com (accessed on my phone), “addiction is a condition that results when a person ingests a substance or engages in an activity that can be pleasurable but the continued use/act of which becomes compulsive and interferes with ordinary life responsibilities, such as work….”

Make of that what you will, but when you consider an addiction is something abnormal, the comparison loses traction.

It would seem an obsession with our phones and social media is normal today.

And I’m certainly not immune to this phenomenon.

I use my smart phone regularly for all types of communication, and despite identifying the flaws of smart phones and social media, I believe there is a heartening balance of positives.

Even though my immediate circle of friends is not that big, my account on Facebook allows me to share in the lives of so many more.

Funny photos, engaging film clips and, when you wake up to a multitude of birthday wishes, it makes you happy inside.

Yes, there is a positive side.

Every day, my intellect, humour, and social conscience is fed.

And I simply love the words of wisdom posted on a daily basis… like: “To be happy; let go of what’s gone. Be grateful for what remains. Look forward to what is next.”

Or: “The less you respond to negativity the more peaceful your life will become.”

And finally, my latest favourite: “Never regret anything that made you smile.”

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Peter Fiorenza is the host of SHL Sunday 10am-noon on Radio MAMA.